I just wanted to post a note because I was recently enlighted by my own experience in the chat room. Our moderators, while they do have a job to do, are so EXPERIENCED in helping us with our fm, cfs, depression and other alphabet soup and I think we sometimes fail to let them. We get nervous like students in a classroom when the teacher walks in thinking we must have done something wrong if the moderator is "showing" herself. I think it is wonderful that they are so caring and willing to give of their time to help us. And even I often forget that they are living with the same issues that we are. I am so glad that THEY have their job and not me...how tired I would be just reading, much less entering the room often! Just a shout out to them for helping all of us and a note to any who have not yet had my revelation, they are not the teacher...they are the counselor! Thanks mods, we luv ya!