I printed out the FAS stuff for my son to give to the woman and after he talked with her last night i really am having a hard time containing myself! She argued with my son about a few things last night, but this one royally sets me on fire! Okay most of you moms or dads out there probably have had a colicky baby right? And you know that you should walk, take for drives, leave in crib for a few min, and give those gas drops right. Well this Witch with a capital BBBBB taped a freaking pacifier in her little girls mouth to keep her from crying, left her little girl in the car because she couldn't handle it. Now my family believes in spanking a child (NOT BEATING) and also making sure that child knows why as in some thing dangerous ( NOT BABIES BY THE WAY) This crazy lady would reverse the door to lock the kids in there room when they were bad or she would just ignore whatever they were doing. I am starting to believe the doctor that had diagnosed her as psychotic and not bipolar. He told her that she was misdiagnosed and she is psychotic and there was nothing he could do for her here that she'd have to go up to chicago where they could help her. I want to call cps like you wouldn't believe but my son and husband both think that cps wouldn't do anything but tip our hand and she would flee as fast as you can see next state. I can tell you all one thing though, my son said he doesn't care what his baby comes out as, he will love and take care of it no matter what because that is his baby. I explained what a long, frustrating, hard road and he knows because of helping me raise his two brothers when dad had to work and go to school. Oh yeah and the dummy woman had to say the one thing that ticks all mothers off " I'm not your mom" when they were fighting over how my son will disipline his child ( not if the child is disabled). I was and am fired up about that but you know i just figured out that yeah witch your'e not like me thank god! I actually give a damn about my kids and love them! Sorry but i am just really really really furious. Kids need love and disipline not what she is doing. My son says that he wants to set all his ducks in a row before calling cps. Like calling an attorney and getting into the army and stuff like that. GRRRRR! Babies don't ask to be born and damn it if someone chooses to have one then they should take care of it as if it is a precious gift from god.