My brother died 10:30 this morning. He would have been 45 on July 7. My Mother is 21/2 hours away. She's 80 and her health is fragile. Some close relatives are meeting me there tomorrow to help me tell her. I can barely handle my grief but hers will be almost too much to bear. I'm afraid this may cause me to lose her too. He was the baby and was two months old when my dad died. My grief seems unending.