I can't believe it. The one person who I could always count on to be there for me is the one who is questioning me now. Today my 2 year old son tried to climb the bookcase in his bedroom. It fell down (he was supposed to be napping) and he got hir arm wedged between the bookcase and the mattress that it landed on. The mattress was probably what kept him from getting seriously hurt. But I didnt hear the bookcase fall because the mattress muffled the sound. My 2 year old came running out crying and holding his arm. I took one look at it and called my husband at work. He came right home and we went to the ER. By the time the doctor came in to see him, his arm looked a lot better, but still really swollen and lots of bruising and redness. They decided it wasnt broken and sent us home. So my husband dropped us off and went back to work. Then he just got home for the day a few minutes ago. He had a very serious expression on his face when he walked in the door. So I asked him what was wrong. He kept saying it was nothing and it wasnt important. Finally he told me that his work is expressing concern about our home situation. This was the 3rd ER visit in as many weeks. The 1st was for me when my leg weakness and numbness on my right side occurred. The 2nd was when I had a severe bladder infection. And the 3rd was today for my toddler's arm. My husband is in the Air Force and until recently we were stationed in Germany. But as my medical problems kept multiplying, the military finally told us that we needed to be stationed in the US again. We were given orders to move to Little Rock Air Force Base in Arkansas. We arrived here at the end of February. Since we got here my medical problems have continued to multiply, including my currently needing a wheelchair. Today it was brought up that there were concerns with me parenting our 3 young children from a wheelchair. They also questioned my ability to parent while I take Percocet every day. (I have been taking this for over a year and it doesnt even make me drowsy or have any side effects anymore.) They suggested that I should have a psychological evaluatioin done to be sure that I am being honest and to make sure that I am not having emotional or mental problems instead of actual medical problems. The worst part was that instead of standing behind me on these issues my husband actually said that I should get the evaluation done to prove my situation. This hurts me more than it would if he was cheating on me!!!!!