After working all week (while sick), Saturdays are my "crash" days, the day I try to recoup from the week, the day I'm in bed all day, in pain & exhausted. Well my Mom (who is a dear lady, but a typical mom) asks if I've paid her speeding ticket yet (online, she's not that comp literate) for the second time (Saturday would be the first day it was in the system) and once she asks how I'm doing, and I tell her I've been in bed all day, so no, I've not done it yet, she starts in on me about "you need to do something to get yourself out of this funk", "this is no life to have" and don't forget the almight guilt trip "we haven't seen you in a month of Sundays". Yes, this is a VENT, but when will they ever understand! Yes, I agree this is no way to live life, but unless I hit the lotto I'm stuck right now. My mom is a sweet lady, but is the Queen of Guilt Trips, and I've told her that as long as I have to work full time, this is my life, and yes, it sucks! I was trying to be kind by offering to pay her ticket and take the four hour traffic school for her, and now I wish I'd just kept my mouth shut! Between her and my two sisters constantly harping on me, I'm ready to move out of state! I'm so sick of trying to explain! I love them all very much, but they are driving me nuts. Anyone else having this much fun with family??