I'm in my own place ths weekend, and although spouse is being sullen and strange, I do not give a crap. I can already feel a sense of peace as I put my stuff in its proper place/s. Haven't felt this way in a looooooooong time. for anyone wondering if they are doing the right thing by leaving a spouse, significant other, who is unsupportive, or downright abusive, I must tell you that with all my heart, it is the right thing. amen. won't be able to post as often now, but will keep you posted. thanks.