As many of you know, I live with my parents and they are very worried about me being so ill. My mom gets so worried and stressed about me that she will make herself ill. My dad hides his feelings (what man doesn't) but shows it from time to time and I know that it hurts to see me like this. We have our conversations and I can tell he is sad that I am unable to talk really well anymore. I try to talk to them as much as I can and reassure them that I will hopefully get better in time. They also keep a positive about that as well, and tell me all the time that they hope that I will get better. I was turned down for health insurance and my dad was sad about that, and I looked at the California High Risk Insurance plan and it costs too much for me to be a part in. My dad was going to help me out with fees. My SDI disability money is now exhausted and no more checks are coming to me. I have applied for SSI/SSDI and we are hoping that I will at least get that, and I have started to look at attorneys just in case. Anyway I wanted to ask you is there any other way that I can encourage them, and help them to not worry so much? Maybe I am doing it now, as the Neurontin has been majorly helping me out with the pain and I am able to move around better BUT I am still dizzy and have cognitive issues. I want to know is there anything more I can to do to encourage my family more?