I'm not sure I if I should post this on the FM board or the chit chat, but it does have something to do with FM at the end. So here goes...All weekend I've been hurting under my right rib and it was really worrying me its been on and off for 2 months,my husband said all weekend if you need to go I'll take you. So, Monday comes, I'm still hurting. I make an appointment with a doctor who could see me right away. She thinks I have gallstones and wants me to go the hospital, so I do, my husband drives me. We get there and have to wait 2 hours just to get a ER room. That starts pissing my husband off. I get in and the nurse came in and gives me pain meds etc and does blood work. Then they send me down for and ultrasound. That comes back fine. My husband in the mean time is doing everything he can to make me more upset. I ask the nurse for another shot, she says do you want it before or after the CT scan. I said after. They send me down right away. I get back to my room, husband has changed the channel to something he wants to watch instead of the Monday night football game. I change it and he pouts! Then the billing lady came in and asked if we could pay the copay, I looked at my husband and he pays it. Then he proceeds to tell me that his social security is his social security and its not for me. Mind you I've been paying all the bills up until this month and never said anything to him about making me broke! I thought after 20 years "whats yours is mine and whats mine is yours". Then he goes even further and says he has taken care of me all these years and now its my turn, HELLO I have FM among other things and have a hard time sometimes even getting out of bed! Then he starts bitching me out (sorry don't know any other word for it) right there in the hospital, not yelling but the words he said were very hurtful and the lady came in a gave another shot! Finally. The Ct scan showed nothing and the doctor came in a told me "since you have fibromyalgia its probably that" hello I can tell the difference, just like I can tell the difference between a toothache, by bursitis and arthritis etc. This is not FM. Everytime I eat something greasy or alittle too spicy I have this pain! So, she sent me home. On the way home my husband says "see this is when you need to take off work, when you are really hurting not because the little pain you have with FM!" I just couldn't believe what come out of his mouth! I of course just fell apart. After having the doctor blame everything on FM and all the crap he gave me in the hospital and then to say that. I don't know what to do now... I am diffently re thinkng my marriage but I have know where to go. Plus I own everything in this apt (which is alot) except for a few things. I'm at my wits end and very upset and when I get stressed my FM flares its ugly head. Any suggestions or helpful comments would be greatly appreciated. Sorry this is so long! I really needed to vent with people I don't even know but who have the same illness.