My fiancee and I split up after 2 years back in October. We didn't talk for 4 months. We decided to get back together in February. Things were great when we got back together. He was so understanding of my illness and so thankful for my forgiveness. The first month was outstanding and he never complained about his herniated discs. Now, he complains daily about his pain and says I get on his nerves when I complain or moan about mine. We are starting to fight again like we used to. How do I make someone understand this illness and that stress and chaos makes things 10 times worse? On top of everything else, my 16 year old daughter believes I am faking or that it's all in my head. I'm getting no support from either of them and it's quite frustrating. Please let me know if anyone is in a similar situation and has some advice for me.