Ok you all, I am facing MANY trials right now, and have found out that my journey with more surgeries is far from over...but...what I need most..other than prayer is... I have a "friend" who is a very prying, voices her opionion too much to me and I have found myself extremely aggitated, and exhausted just from thinking about it. I realize the boundaries issue, and I want so desprately to have the Holy Spirit press on my heart how to handle this in a Christian way...without the entire church finding out. Speaking of which, the looks and comments that are made to us from "sisters and brothers" at are church. I see it as the opportunity to see the true hearts of some of the people, but I jsut do not have it in me anymore. My husband who at this time is holding this little family up financially and holding me up spiritually, physically, and does so much for me...does not have any comforting words or encourageing words from other men within the church. Please pray for us, I have a special needs child who takes alot out of me in the evenings, and that is really my focus right now, how do I share this gently with this "friend".. I am sorry I really needed to vent... Hugs..to all, and please know though I do not always respond..I appreciate your prayers, and I pray for others needs on this wonderful website.