Okay I'm going to condense as much as possible - Try to follow. HA I work part time. Had to do something to earn extra income. Purses! They're huge around here - the designer knock offs. So I invested in some, started selling - GREAT results. This company I was working with (purchasing from )was wonderful, developed a fantastic rapport with the owner, long story short, we decided to work together.I say that, but really I had to send my resume etc So I guess he "decided", but I reeeeally wanted to. He has a huge successful international company located in Bel Air. Been in all the mags (People, on TV) It's a big deal. I am helping him develop this into an opportunity for other people to get involved in the direct selling business - like Pampered Chef, AtHome America type of business, if you've ever heard of those. Big business man. For some reason he loves me. (I'm good on the phone LOL). Fast forward - He's flying out to meet me this week. He's coming here to spend 1 and a half full days with me. Thankfully staying at a hotel but basically I'm hostessing him for the entire time. CRAP. Forget about the fact that I'm freaking out about what to feed him. LOL We ARE going to dinner for the one dinner he's here. I still have two lunches, a breakfast and snacks. He's sushi, I'm tuna. Oh well! I'm more worried about missing my naps!!!!!!!!!!! God love my family, we joked about what I'm going to say: "Here let's sit over here, you sit on the chair, I'll sit on the couch. Wait I'll lay, wait, let me get my blanket - oh and my pillow. I'm sorry if I lay facing the other way I'm not ignoring you" 'do you mind rubbing my legs while we 'talk?' <tossing him a bottle of lotion> "What? I always lay my head on the table before I eat, I'm just praying" (for hours) "I'm going up to my room for a minute - I'll be right back - in two hours" "I listen better when my eyes are closed" Now you may say the obvious - tell him. I really can't at this point. This is a business decision. This new opportunity could be/will be great for me and will be wonderful as far as being able to work with this dd. I will have total flexibility. Right now (since Oct.) I have put in the time in the evenings and free time sitting on my couch with my laptop in my jammies. Part of me is joking that I need positive thoughts - I can handle this - the other part is saying "Oh $hit" This really is going to be tough on me. Humor is welcome!!!!!!!!! Thanks girls and guys!!!