Hi- I am looking for support and any articles that will help explain to my husband why any and all stress sends me into an emotional meltdown! He has high stress with his job (which I understand) but his 'energy' so to speak, which can be slamming a door b/c something I have said doesn't come out right, etc., overwhelms my system and I go off the deep end....screaming, crying and the effects can last for days. I am generally a happy and somewhat productive person when left on my own. I am getting to the point (maybe past it?) of just divorcing him to escape his energy. It makes me sad- we have been together over 30 yrs., but he acts like "why can't you just blow it off/get over it?" and I try to explain that the neuro pathways are broken that allow me to deal with any stress, but I, of course, do not explain things very well these days, and I think he would be able to understand an article about these issues easier than my explaination. Can anyone help direct me to some articles or websites discussing this? Thanks!