Hi everyone! I'm new to this site and new to board posting. Have always been just a lurker! I was diagnosed with fms two long years ago. After this last flare-up, DH commented that I hadn't accepted this disease or the lifestyle changes it often causes. He suggested I find people that could better understand the "psychological" results of this disease. So of course I went to the computer. So, can someone share with me how they learned to cope and accept their limitations? I've always been a planner and hate living day by day!! Thanks!