My wife has had Fibro for about 6 years now and I recently realized that its not a disease thats "all in her head" and that it is a serious thing. I feel terrible for telling her the past years that she needs to live her life to the fullest and not let it beat her and that she cant just lay in bed the rest of her life..etc, but I cant change what Ive said in the past, but I have changed my outlook and she knows that. I want to know from you all what I can do to comfort her and ease some of her pain, what makes you feel better and gets your mind off of the pain a little? She still works full time at a stressful job and we have a 7 and 3 year old, so she's hurting badly at the end of the day and hardly has the energy to do anything but get in the bed. Im just curious again, at what your spouses do that help that I may be able to do for my wife to help her through this disease as best I can.