hi I'm a 37 year old guy who's just recently been diagnosed with fm and anxiety disorder along with depression.I'm finding everything very overwhelming. I'm taking the absolute max of effexor and ativan when I'm anxious. I tried clonazapam but I suffered a huge allergic reaction. Does anyone relate? The all over pain is intense to say the least but the headaches are crippling!!! I'd really like to hear from others who feel the same??