ohhhhhhhh the agony(pain)

Discussion in 'Fibromyalgia Main Forum' started by blessedmom2four, Aug 1, 2006.

  1. blessedmom2four

    blessedmom2four New Member

    i am a stay at home mom

    my husband sometimes gets on these jobs that are 7 days a week 10-12 hours a day.

    i feel that i should do everything i can to help him with his jobs that he would do when he isnt working that schedule.

    Since he is so supportive of me staying home even though we struggle alot.
    So heres my rant

    the front yard despratly needed to be mowed, i dont stress on the back as no one can see it but our front blends with our neibors and i feel its wrong for ours to look like crap.

    it is big and a slant, kinda hilly...

    so i went out there and mowed and now i feel like i am going to throw up from the pain...

    guess i should go soak in a bath
    [This Message was Edited on 08/01/2006]
  2. mrpain

    mrpain New Member

    Try not to stress yourself...Is it possible for a young kid looking to make a few bucks, would cut your yard. I remember back in the good ole days when, as a teenager, I would cut the neighbors yard and would only get payed two dollars. It would be three dollars if it was a corner yard.

    I know times have changed and they would want more but maybe some helpful person would cut it for a reasonable amount that's fair to you and them. Especially if they knew your situation. (I'm just feeblely trying to help.)

    And I'm sure your supportive in more ways than you know. And I'm sure he understands..
  3. fight4acure

    fight4acure Member

    Hon, I'm sorry you had to mow. I would've just let the darn crap grow until someone come over to mow it... oh wait, I have to mow, LOL, oh well. But I have my dad mow the half that I cannot.

    Hope the bath is helping! {{{{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}}}}}
  4. doxygirl

    doxygirl New Member

    "EPSOMS SALT"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I swear by that stuff it really works!

    You have to make the water as warm as you can stand it............and soak for as long as you can tolerate it.................you will notice a difference!

    When my kids were ( or are ) sick I make them soak in epsoms salts and it always makes them feel better right away!

    Hugs and hugs and hugs hoping your feeling better soon............"Oh and no more mowing for you Missy"! LOL

  5. blessedmom2four

    blessedmom2four New Member

    i just typed a big huge post and response to you all thanking you and updating you all, and when i went to post reply i hit something else and my post went bye bye...

    anywho thanks mrpain,fight4acure,livnlife,doxygirl for the thoughts and love..

    livnlife-i live in stockton

    doxygirl- i have never used epson but almost bought it at the dollar store would it work the same?
  6. petsrme

    petsrme Member

    Blessed, if you can't do it don't. It is not worth you getting sick. I used to do all the yard work because hubby works all the time. Now it looks like crap. I just can't do it. I had an asthma attack last time I tried and bp skyrocketed. That has been a couple years ago i think. Please don't force yourself to do it if it is going to make you sick. People will get over it.
  7. blessedmom2four

    blessedmom2four New Member

    ohhhh i love lodi, me and my dh drove around some neat neighborhoods there...

    my husband has worked at the refinery in rocklin before, isnt there a casino nearbye...
    really sore in my back today...but its not as bad as last night


    and when I try to help out and mow the yard I feel like I'm going to explode my face stays red for hours and I feel like I going to have a heat stroke! I kinda like mowing the yard it's something different than doing the house work which I can't really do much of anymore!

    Take care!