Thank you for your kind words in (to post or not to post). I do feel alone at times and unheard.My husband has been a great supporter but I don't think he truely understands how I am feeling. You see I am still searching for answers. I know I have FMS/CFS but I have all these blood tests that are either pointing to Sjogrens or Lupus, one doctor said Sjogrens but my PCP doesn't think so, so I am on to my 3rd Rhumey. I feel like they look at me like I am nuts. I don't look sick but I feel sick. I am not as bad as some on here, but its still there. I just want to know. the not knowing is killing. I know it won't mak ea difference in my treatments but I really need to know. This has all been so confusing and frustrating. And through all this I work fulltime and try to keep my house in order. I am sorry I just realized I am just rambling on. Anyways again thanks for your kind words.