OT- Inspiration and Daffodils

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  1. LollieBoo

    LollieBoo New Member

    My Aunt sent me this story and I find it so relevant to those of forced so often to only be able to take baby steps- God Bless- I hope you enjoy it!

    The Daffodil Principle

    Several times my daughter had telephoned to say, "Mother, you must come to see the daffodils before they are over."

    I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead. "I will come next Tuesday", I promised a little reluctantly on her third call.

    Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and reluctantly I drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn's house I was welcomed by the joyful sounds of happy children. I delightedly hugged and greeted my grandchildren.

    "Forget the daffodils, Carolyn! The road is invisible in these clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and these children that I want to see badly enough to drive another inch!"

    My daughter smiled calmly and said, "We drive in this all the time, Mother."

    "Well, you won't get me back on the road until it clears, and then I'm heading for home!" I assured her.

    "I was hoping you'd take me over to the garage to pick up my car."

    "How far will we have to drive?"

    "Oh...just a few blocks," Carolyn said. "But I'll drive. I'm used to this."

    After several minutes, I had to ask, "Where are we going? This isn't the way to the garage!"

    "We're going to my garage the long way," Carolyn smiled, "by way of the daffodils."

    "Carolyn," I said sternly, "please turn around."

    "It's all right, Mother, I promise. You will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience."

    After about twenty minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I saw a small church. On the far side of the church, I saw a hand lettered sign with an arrow that read, "Daffodil Garden." We got out of the car, each took a child's hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path.
    Then, as we turned a corner, I looked up and gasped.

    Before me lay the most glorious sight. It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it over the mountain peak and it's surrounding slopes. The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns, great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, creamy white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, and saffron and butter yellow. Each different-colored variety was planted in large groups so that it
    swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue. There were five acres of flowers.

    "Who did this?" I asked Carolyn.

    "Just one woman," Carolyn answered. "She lives on the property. That's her home."

    Carolyn pointed to a well-kept A-frame house, small and modestly sitting in the midst of all that glory. We walked up to the house.

    On the patio, we saw a poster. "Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking" was the headline. The first answer was a simple one. "50,000 bulbs," it read.

    The second answer was, "One at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and one brain."

    The third answer was, "Began in 1958."

    For me, that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than forty years before, had begun, one bulb at a time, to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountaintop. Planting one bulb at a time, year after year,
    this unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. One day at a time, she had created something of extraordinary magnificence, beauty, and inspiration.

    The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principles of celebration. That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time--often just one baby-step at time--and learning to love the doing, learning to use the accumulation of time.
    When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world.

    "It makes me sad in a way," I admitted to Carolyn. "What might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five or forty years ago and had worked away at it 'one bulb at a time' through all those years? Just think what I might have been able to achieve!"

    My daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct way.

    "Start tomorrow," she said.

    She was right. It's so pointless to think of the lost hours of yesterdays. The way to make learning a lesson of celebration instead of a cause for regret is to only ask, "How can I put this to use today?"

    Use the Daffodil Principle. Stop waiting.....
    Until your car or home is paid off
    Until you get a new car or home
    Until your kids leave the house
    Until you go back to school
    Until you finish school
    Until you clean the house
    Until you organize the garage
    Until you clean off your desk
    Until you lose 10 lbs.
    Until you gain 10 lbs.
    Until you get married
    Until you get a divorce
    Until you have kids
    Until the kids go to school
    Until you retire
    Until summer
    Until spring
    Until winter
    Until fall
    Until you feel better
    Until your pain is relieved
    Until you die....

    There is no better time than right now to be happy.

    Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

    So live today as if it the most important day of your life. The things you do today will shape your tomorrow and lead you to your ultimate goal. Even if it is only baby steps you are taking, take them confidently, with no regrets- you are accomplishing what needs to be accomplished to achieve your destiny. Allow time to build up your achievements into an overall picture of who you are and what you want people to see, rather than fretting about the loss of time within one day- keep going in the face of adversity, knowing that ultimately what people will see is your strength and beauty.


    Wishing you all a beautiful, daffodil day!

  2. 123sandra

    123sandra New Member

  3. sunflowergirl

    sunflowergirl Well-Known Member

    A little research turned up the map and when to go see the daffodils if anyone is interested. I live about 45 min. away so come April I'm going to see it. This is in Running Springs which is near Lake Arrowhead.