I have had an enlarged gland for quite some time now. It's located between my lower jaw bone and my ear. Sort of lower than the ear and slightly higher than my jaw bone. It's a little painful if you push on it just the right way. I don't think it's a stone in my parotid gland. It doesn't feel hard. Just a fleshy feeling. I noticed it last winter, but it wasn't quite as big and I thought maybe it was moreso my imagination. So I just put it out of my mind. But now it seems to have gotten bigger. I have an appt. with my ENT this coming Monday. I'm worrying myself sick. I blame everything on my Fibro so I'm hoping it's just "one of those wierd symptoms". Anyone else ever have this?