Placing Of Hubby Fell Through

Discussion in 'Spirituality/Worship' started by Myoriah, Oct 4, 2004.

  1. Myoriah

    Myoriah New Member

    The place where hubby is wants him out and Friday is the deadline. I have for two weeks been working on getting hubby placed somewhere close to me. Plans were to bring hubby back to be near me again. Everything was worked out was told hubby could be placed at a locked down facility close to the house. Now at the eleventh hour the deal has fallen through and I was told they would not accept hubby. The game plan was for an aide and I to drive Wednesday to the city where hubby is and Thursday drive him back home and place him immediately in a facility. Now I do not know what to do. The director of a facility will call me tomorrow to let me know if I can place hubby there on a temporary basis while a Social Worker helps me find a place for hubby. Seems like everywhere I turn there is another brick wall I run smack dab into.

    I keep telling myself there is a reason the placement fell through and God has a better place in mind but right now I am discouraged and frustrated. Only wish it was possible to care for hubby at home.

    Myoriah @-->---
  2. dash

    dash New Member

    Heavenly Father

    I am believing with Myoriah that God has a better plan for her husband's care. I am asking for your direct intervention in the placement process, so that he can be cared for nearby her residence.

    Provide him with a clean and cheerful facility, with a good program for caring with those who have Alziehmers. May it be staffed with wise, compassionate, skillful people.

    Give Myoriah the sense of peace and confidence she needs to walk this road in life. Send her friends to help her through this painful, frustrating time.

    In Jesus'name I pray,
    Della

  3. LindaH

    LindaH New Member

    That you find a place for your hubby that is very close to you. I am so sorry that you have to go through so much stress.

    Linda
  4. PrayerWarrior316

    PrayerWarrior316 New Member

    My heart goes out to you, My father also had Alzheimer's and I know what you are going through. I know that all of this is very stressful for you.

    I will certainly be praying that the Lord will provide a facility for you that is willing to take your husband in that is close to where you live in your area.

    Blessings, Judy <a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/17/17_1_22.gif' border=0></a>


  5. Myoriah

    Myoriah New Member

    I leave in the morning and there is no place to put hubby when I get back. No one wants him. Either no one wants him or there are no beds available. Some friends are scurrying around following up leads and trying to explain to the people who have rejected hubby the extenuating circumstance behind his behavior. Things like staff totally disregarding the information I gave them on how best to handle hubby. Unfortunately it is the staff who caused the problems who are now giving hubby a bad name. The director even told me that hubby was no way responsible for his actions because I had written instructions that hubby was not to be abruptly woken and she had also told them that.

    Anyway worst case scenario is that I bring him home and take care of him as best as I can until a place can be found. Hopefully the meds will keep him calm enough that he does not try to kill me or that I don't die from exhaustion and health problems made worse by caring for him.

    I'm journeying with the hope that a miracle will take place and I will be able to place hubby directly somewhere. The 800 miles there and then back will definitely be filled with lots of prayer

    Myoriah @------
  6. dash

    dash New Member

    Dear Lord,

    Myoriah begins her journey today to pick up her hubby. Grant her traveling mercies. Protect her coming and going. Give her husband a spirit of peace and calm on their return. As she makes this drive, quell any anxious thoughts and fears.

    Most of all, Father, please make a way for a care facility to take her dear one. If she must do homecare for a period of time, then please send her compassionate and dependable help.

    In Jesus' name I pray,
    Della
  7. cinnabarsib

    cinnabarsib New Member

    Dear Lord God~ I join Della in her prayer to you for Myoriah, Amen. Thank you Lord for answers that are coming for both her Hubby and for Myoriah. We know your Grace will more than supply all their needs.~~~~ ~~~~with hope, Sib