This is Dees' husband Bill. Please help me to understand Dees' reaction to the little stupid man things I do. They seem so slight to me but she will explode. The things she says to me really hurt and make me feel like just giving up. Dee says she wants me to be stronger but she keeps saying things to me that make me feel small and worthless. I know I can not understand all the pain she feels, And the way she must misses all the things she used to be able to do. I will always love her and that tells me to hang on. Please let me know if what is happening to Dee and I happens to others. And what can I do. If you don't want to answer on the board my E-Mail is Devaltson@aol.com Desperate Bill.