Not sure where to post this, thought about the worship board and probably will go there for prayer... I do need some advise concerning my granddaughter..Won't go into all the details as I have posted them on the worship board under "Prayer for my Granddaugher", or something like that.. Anyway, my daughter keeps her children during the week while my granddaughter works, in fact she leaves the children with her most of the time..Especially the weekends. So this weekend she dropped the children off on Friday around 3p.m.(She did not work that day)..said she would be back in a few minutes..Well, Sunday around noon she finally showed up at her apartment.. On Saturday morning, I was out looking for her, drove by her apartment and saw her door standing wide open..So I went in to ck on things and to see If my cell phone was there that I had loaned her..I saw a purse on a chair went thru it and there was my granddaughters wallet and other things.. I checked to see if there was any money in her wallet, there was so I took it and found my cell phone got it also.. She has a habit of losing money or the crowd she hangs with taking it..She was so out of it this weekend she didn't even miss it till Sunday afternoon.. I am afraid if I give it back it will be used the wrong way, yes its her money but her children are doing without for her to party.. I know this probably doesn't make sense but I am thinking of holding on to the money for a week or so just to see how she does then give it back or save it for the children..I feel this was money for her car payment as it was $400.00 cash... She doesn't seem to care about the being with her children but she won't let my daugher have custody..My daughter lost her job because my granddaughter would never get the children when she was suppose to, she was always late, or not show up at all.. My daughter is jobless and trying to take care for these children plus a 15 yr old at home.She also is a single mom (widow)..and very little income..In fact I took food for them this weekend so they could eat and the little one diapers.. Sorry, this is so long but should I hold on to the money, and see how she does or give it back and let her blow it or whatever..It is her money..I feel so guilty but her children need food... Any input would be most appreciated.. Thanks and God Bless, greatgran p.s. After this weekend my daughter has called Child Protective Services and I have contacted a lawyer but it will be later this week before we can get in since the children are being cared for..