I am curious how other people's spouses and partners have reacted to your dx regarding chores, cooking parenting? My husband cooks most nights (we have 4 kids). He doesn't do any cleaning except for dishes. I still do all the laundry (daughter-15 does her own). He gets groceries. I used to...still do sometimes...He took over his ironing...He does the yardwork....He drives the kids to school and picks them up when it works into his schedule...He is the superintendent for the school district so he has some flexibility in his workday....I buy the kids clothing and supplies for school or whatever....i am in charge of the kids schedules...get them up in the morning (my boys need to be prodded every step of the way lol!!!!)pack the boys backpacks for school...pack snacks...do all the doc, dentist, eye doc etc....call hubby to find out if he is picking kids up or if i am...i have to do this everyday or he just spaces them out at 3:00....weird... what is it like at your houses?