pray for me please

Discussion in 'Spirituality/Worship' started by hannah1218, Jan 31, 2004.

  1. hannah1218

    hannah1218 New Member

    I'm about to give up all hope. I've been very sick for 2 years with Lupus. My husband is not understanding at all. I can't go to the doctor as I'd like to. My husband threatens to cancel my insurance almost daily. I have 2 daughters grown and married. They have no idea what I go through and I can't bear the thought of them knowing. My husband withholds food and medical care from me. I haven't eaten in days and my last prescriptions are sitting on the dresser unfilled. He doesn't allow me any money. I don't drive and am stuck in the house. I have constant pain and am very afraid. He has stopped buying any groceries and he brings his food in from places. I don't want people to know that another human being can be so cruel. I've been praying but I'm getting so tired of trying. He thinks i'm lazy and it hurts so much to hear those cruel words. I do try everyday to function, but its not getting any better.
  2. Shirl

    Shirl New Member

    welcome you to the Worship board, there are some awesome prayer Warrior's here, and I know they are going to take heaven by storm for all that you are going through.

    My dear lady, you need to let your children know what is going on with your husband. That is beyond cruel, and he must be a very sick person himself to do these awful things to you.

    I will be praying from right now untill I hear from you that things are improving in your life.

    'Blessed Lord Christ Jesus, have mercy on your servent Hanna, reach down right now and touch her husband's heart, that he see, feel, and know the cruel things he is doing to your precious child.

    My Lord, in the name of the Almighty God the Father I pray in the name of the Lord Christ Jesus', Amen.

    Shalom, Shirl

  3. gailette

    gailette New Member

    Sounds as if you husband is having a deeper problem,butyou need to help yourself by telling your daughter dad sick and you need help to get better yourself.I will pray for your now and again later today and Lord will the next day.
  4. danny3861

    danny3861 New Member

    My heart is so touched by your post, I can hardly beleive my eyes. Please tell your kids whats going on, I'm sure they will give you the support you need.

    I will be praying for you to be blessed.

  5. Lumare41

    Lumare41 New Member

    Hannah please get help now!! Tell your daughters! Your husband is sick and also needs help.There are also services you can call that can help you.I will pray for you.I will pray that God gives you strength to get the help you need
    and He enters your husbands heart and helps him see the harm he is causing you.I will pray that He will open the eyes of your children so that they see what you are going through.Please do not give up.Put your trust in Him and He will help you.There are many people here that will pray for you.Please keep us updated on how you are doing.
    In His Love,Luann
  6. LindaH

    LindaH New Member

    I agree with all the others. You need to tell someone so you can get the help you need. No one deserves the treatment you are receiving. Please, please tell someone and do not wait any longer.

    I will keep you in my prayers and will also pray for your husband to receive love and mercy in his heart. I cannot tell you how much I hurt for you and your situation. The only thing I can do is pray for you but that is such a wonderful thing. Our Lord is so loving and merciful.

    Love in Christ
  7. PrayerWarrior316

    PrayerWarrior316 New Member

    First of all, I want to welcome you to the Worship Board.

    My heart goes out to you, Please let your daughters know what is going on with your husband.

    The way that your husband is treating you is so cruel. No one deserves the kind of treatment that you are recieving. Your husband is certainly in need of some serious help.

    Please do not give up, Keep on believing, Keep on trusting and Most Definately Keep on Looking up to the Lord.

    I will be praying for you !!

    May you be blessed with many blessings from heaven above, Judy <a href='' target='_blank'><img src='' border=0></a>

  8. upnightowl

    upnightowl New Member


    You have made a giant step here. It had to take a lot of courage for you to reach out to us and know we all are here for you and care deeply.

    Now it is time to take another step, you need to get help there that can help you too. Is there a clergy person you could contact, do you have a doctor (or maybe his nurse that you feel comfortable with).

    You know we all want to protect our children, we don't want to feel as if we are a burden to them. I know I feel that way as my son is 31. But I know if I felt I needed him he would be right here for me, as I know your daughters would be for you. There is a mother/child bond.

    My mother is still alive and I know I would want to know if she were going through something like this. As a daughter I respect her privacy, so sometimes we do not pick up on the signs that something is wrong. Call your daughters and talk to them.

    Please know that we care and are concerned for your welfare and that prayers are being said for you. Please keep us updated as to how you are doing.

    God Bless you and watch over you,

  9. blessings

    blessings New Member

    Please stop protecting the man that is supposed to be your provider an spiritual leader. And to care for you like Christ cares for the church! From what you have posted, heis behaving the opposite. To me, it seems you must get away.

    Dear Lord;
    I do not have all the answers, but I know what it is like to live under cruelty. I know that it is not Your will. I pray Lord that you will intervene in a mighty way on this dear Hannah's behalf and provide for her a safe haven, a place where her medical and physical and spiritual needs are met. Lord, please place a hedge of protection around her.

    Lord, please, in Jesus Name, please help this dear lady.
    I ask that she not be allowed to suffer at the hands of this man any longer, where even the basics of life are withheld. Lord Jesus, You are the Way, the Truth and the Life, and I also pray for this man. You are able to reach any heart, no matter what is standing in the way. Right now, Lord, I am asking foremost for Hannah's delivery from this cruelty...In the Name of Jesus, I pray, Amen...keep in touch, to you,blessings
  10. hannah1218

    hannah1218 New Member

    Today is Tuesday and I am safe. I called my oldest daughter Sunday night and she came and got me. She called my youngest daughter who was very shaken up by what all was happening to me. Connie, my youngest met us at her home. We must have talked all night and are still talking. I go to the doctor tomorrow. Yes, my husband has called several times. My daughter tells him she wants him to refrain from calling or visiting or she will go to the police. She is recording each phone call he makes to us. I'm trying to rest and it feels good to be free. I cannot thank each of you enough for giving me the strength to take a step. It was this website that I do not know how I discovered that gave me my hope. Thank you for your prayers and please keep praying for me and my husband. God bless each of you and I do love you so much.
  11. PrayerWarrior316

    PrayerWarrior316 New Member


    I'm so glad that you are safe, You have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since I read your first post.

    It is so good to hear that you let your daughters know about the situation that was going on with you and your husband.


    Thank You for letting us know that you are safe, I will continue to pray for you and for your husband.

    Many Blessings to you, Judy <a href='' target='_blank'><img src='' border=0></a>

  12. blessings

    blessings New Member

    My dearest Hannah;
    It just warmed my heart to read your post. I am so very thankful that your loving daughters came to your aid. God Bless them!!

    Please stay with them where you are loved, cared for, and protected.

    God Bless you, dear one.

    love, blessings
  13. NewEnglander

    NewEnglander New Member

    You need to let someone know what is going on,
    call the red cross, savation army, womens resources, they will help and direct you in the path you need to go.
    if they can't help you, they will tell you who to call.

    My husband has no problem throwing in my face that I'm going to be losing my health insurance and can be very cruel. but he's gonna gets his. okay, not very Christian of me and enough about me. reading your post has just made me so angry. I wish I could post my phone number or e-mail but its not allowed. maybe we could meet in one of the chat rooms. Hmm let me think. I really want to pray with you because I am very troubled in my spirit reading your post.
    let me know if or give me a time to meet in one of the chat rooms, some of the rooms are not even being used
  14. NewEnglander

    NewEnglander New Member

    just read your post, and am so relieved that your family has intervened. thank God..I'm so glad that your getting help.
    God hates divorce, but does not believe in a women staying with a man that is abusing her.
    The Husband is suppose to love his wife like his own flesh and to love his wife the way God loves the body of Christ, his church.
    hope your okay
  15. Lumare41

    Lumare41 New Member

    Hannah I was so relieved to hear you were safe!I will keep praying for you and your family.Please take care of yourself and keep us updated.Stay safe!
    Love Luann