Here are a few statements that I am getting thrown at me like daggers. I would like everyone's comebacks, so I can let this person read them. What do you feel about someone saying to you: Stop feeling sorry for yourself. All you do is complain, gripe and moan. I'm sick of hearing it. I don't want to hear it today. You people on that board just sit and whine to one another. I feel bad everyday, you don't hear me bitc..ing. I just keep on working. You have to not think about it, if you let it get to you it will. (and if you don't mention it)..Oh, she's doing great today! How long are you going to stay in this house? When are you going to get out and do something? That is what is wrong with you. When are you going to go to the store? When are you going to clean this place up? You feel good enough to sit on that computer. You don't want to feel better or you'd do something about it. Well fellow FM friends, is that enough to get your feathers ruffled, or should I say more. I come to this board for advice on how to feel better each day, to hear some words of support and encouragement, to know I'm not alone in this and to be understood. We are not on here to whine to one another. Help me come up with the words to explain to people that we are the same people we use to be, that fun and interesting person now stuck in this body of torture. Words of love, offers to help, soft massages and gentle hugs are a few things that we would love to receive. Thanks in advance for your responses on what would you like to say to those statements.