I'd like some ideas from some of you courageous mothers who have been where I am right now. I have four young children and have been in alot of pain over the last few years. All tests to date have been normal, and docs are leaning towards FM as my diagnosis. It all started with the last pregnancy. It's been pretty hectic bringing a new baby home to a mother who is incapable of doing everything for them. Baby is now 14 months and I'm in the worst shape ever. Every day over the last year and a half has been a struggle in regards to pain. I need some ideas on how to provide them with the neccesities of life and getting the rest I need. I don't want them to grow up resenting me for molding thier lives by the condition that molds mine.