I've been married for a long time. I always had a stronger sex drive than my husband before I got FM. We used to get into arguements about having sex(I wanted to & he didn't). I was put on amitriptyline and lost a lot of my sex drive. It actually put us on level terms as for as sex was concerned. 2 mths. ago I came off the med and it really made a difference in my sex drive. We have been really enjoying the past few weeks if you know what I mean. LOL. Now I've been on Trazodone since last Wednesday. I think it has increased my sex drive even more. After a very enjoyable time with my hubby last night, he told me I looked happier than i had in 4 yrs. I busted out crying. I'm scared he is making love to me out of pitty rather than because he really wants me. I tryed to talk to him about it because I don't want things to go back to the argueing like it used to be. (Don't get me wrong, it wasn't all the time. We really have a strong marriage but every marriage has a few problems.) I'm scared if I keep coming on to him to strongly then he may feel pressured and grow to resent it after time. I don't want to push it but I really enjoy the sexual time together. He really knows how to make me feel good and take my mind off of all the pain and missery that comes with FM. He has really stuck by me through the good days & the bad. I love him so much. he's working out of town on Monday nights and I miss him so much tonight. I don't feel comfortable talking to any of my friends about my sex life. We are both christians and go to church every sunday.(He's a Deacon) I have learned alot since I found this board a few weeks ago. Please give me yopur opinions and advice about what to do. Should I back off? He usually don't initiate sex because he dosn't want to hurt me if I don't feel up to it. Or should I enjoy the goodtimes while they last and hope the med dosn't change reactions on me. I haven't taken enough of it to ease all the pain but I sure feel more entergetic and loving. I'M SORRY I'M GOING ON & ON. I JUST NEED TO VENT.