I've posted several times about my recent (this summer) dx of CFS and how lately things have gotten much worse re: an impending job change for hubby that requires a move of about 100 mi. While I initially was excited about the opportunity and agreed to it, the more I saw and learned of the area, the less I wanted anything to do with it, to the point I now am almost willing to do anything to stay in this house and just have everything consistent, constant, and unchanging for once. There has been so much happening, and we've had so many issues/regressions with our 4 y.o. daughter, that I frequently am becoming completely unglued. Hubby is convinced I am bipolar...he says it all the time. I know bipolar people (or rather relatives of them), and yes, I am profoundly moody, and I do get very nasty when I get overstimmed, but I know this is all due to the situational stress and I am not mentally ill. The CFS, which hubby doesn't believe in, just compounds everything as my senses are so, so raw, and I get so fatigued and don't have the reserves I should. This is esp. hard as I have a very busy, very willful, and very draining child. I love her so much, but in less than an hour this evening, I had her throwing fits about dinner, then I found out she peed in her pants again...this has been a daily or more occurrence for several months, and I know it's behavioral and not medical in nature...then hubby caught her chewing on our nice leather couch, then I saw a mark that looked an awful lot like pencil on her door casing (and we are trying to get our house ready to list for sale early next week). I can only take so much. Can he force me to move/sell our house? I am on the title and own 1/2 of it. But he says he owns the other 1/2, and he can force me to sell. I haven't worked in years (I stay home to care for our daughter) and have no income...and I am too sick with CFS to consider going to a full-time career at this point. I have very much tried to have an open mind about the move, but I've encountered so many nasty people, and the traffic has been horrendous. I also have basically zero friends up there and do not have the energy to re-establish a support network, etc., much less find my way around a new area when I still sporadically "zone" and miss freeway exits, etc. around here, 'cause of the whole brain fog thing. My body just cannot take the stress. I am only in my mid-30s, but I am so thin and frail I wonder how far it will go. And my husband will not compromise on ANYTHING about this, esp. as we have a signed lease for housing starting Feb. 1st. I just don't know what to do. I have nowhere to go re: family and no one to really help me financially. I have seriously considered filing for divorce, but I know that would devastate my child, and my husband would fight me tooth and nail for custody and try to use the whole CFS thing as proof I was incompetent. Again, I also have no means of supporting myself at the moment, and I don't see that changing in the near term. Hubby says even if I filed, he would make me sell the house anyways, as I wouldn't be able to buy him out. It's awful. If anyone has ANY ideas of options for me, I would really appreciate them. I feel utterly trapped. But I know in my heart this move is the last thing I need, and my health will continue to go downhill. I can tell my body is breaking down. How much further will it go? I need to make a change NOW so I can start healing myself, something I had actually started to do before the whole job/move thing sent me into a tailspin. Thank you so much for any help.