I was driving to work and got this awful pain in my left side and had the need to urinate real bad...figured I could wait until I got to work...until there was a major traffic jam...the pain got so bad I went to the ER instead of work. It turns out the UTI I had last week never really went away and it was MAD at me. THey took very good care of me and gave me scripts for the infection and the pain...the problem I have is my husband and I had an argument the night before about our bad financial situation and I blamed him for it because he hasn't hardly worked this year. When I called him from the ER he said "what do you want me to do" I said stay home with the baby for now (she is 1) until they decide what is wrong. Then I asked him to call work and he wanted me to do it...I said no I need you to do it. When I got home he barely even aknowledged that I was back and didn't really react to what the diagnosis was. Not to mention he and the baby were both still in their PJ's at 11:30am...he wasn't even considering coming to the hopsital even though I know I said not tooo...something I would have done had it been him....I guess just the difference in men and women. Uggghhh I know he has depression issues and maybe I should not have pointed the finger of blame at him but we are on the edge of loosing everything and I just couldn't hold it back any more. Just needed to vent, thanks for reading/listening.