My husband has decided taht I was miss diagnosed because I am not as bad off as gentleman he knows. This guy is 80+ and has multiple health problems. My dh has decided i am only temporarily in pain. How do I encourage him to accept this as a new way of life. My flares and good days are often just days apart. On a bad day I work my 8 hours and come home and sleep 2 hours fix supper clean up and go to bed. On good day i am a typical 38 year old mom and wife. I just never know day to day what will today hold. I am sorry this is so long i guess I needed to vent and wonder... how do encourage my dh to accept FM, CFS, and other diagnosis?