I have found out that my son has Sensory Integration Disorder and will get diagnosed soon, possibly with ADD. I haven't mentioned much to my mom back home about all the stuff going on over here since there have bee so much both here and over there, and my son is overall a sweet and loving guy and that's all that matters! Anyways, I sent her an email today and told her about it, and see and behold: she blamed me for it! She said I look around to much for "problems" and that I "reflect my own problems upon my children". HUH? WHAT is up with THAT? I was so upset I couldn't believe it? I have enough batteling doctors, society overall about haveing a DD like CFS. My mom is old and is not knowledgeable about the latest research about FM and CFS at all. Sher doesn't know it's most possibly hereditary for once. She doesn't know that SID is possibly also hereditary. I had it as a child (I know now after reading it on behalf of my son, my psychiatrist verified it yesterday), but I was blamed as a child for my "odd behavior (SID) when groweing up.) Now this. Of course I wrote her back right away and said that she could NOT blas\me me since I wasn't aware there was a problem until teachers started venting about the problems they observed in school. He even had an assistant in 1st grade. I guess we can blame me for that, right. Gosh I sure need to vent! My mom seems to think I am nutty for some reason, batteling CFS and other issues. Wouldn't she know better, having FM? Maybe it's old age, maybe it is that I know everything is not allright upstairs with her (not in a bad way, but we have noticed this, me and my sis and bro, subtle, but still). Guys, what to do??? I love my mom to death, but I need to be able to taslk about everything freely. I need my mommy,,,,LOL! She can look back and apologize, she is not all bad, but she have gotten this idea about me, this hurts me really bad. I tend to taslk about mediciene and psychology alot because it's my main passion, maybe she misunderstand it?? HUGS to all!