I have read posts of understanding husbands and husbands who do not understand. My husband is the best. He constantly takes care of me and pampers me in every way. He does not want me doing any thing that may make my pain worse or stress me. He also will not allow anyone to upset me or stress me out if it at all possible. When I get upset because I am hurting, I'm in a fog he will calm me down. He lost his Dad on July 13 and his mother on September 12 while all of this was going on and I was trying to do and care for him, he insisted that he take care of me. It took at least five years of going to Drs., tests, and being told that they could not find anything. One Dr. kept doing tests, but would not follow thru with calling me etc. It upset me and he called the Drs. office and told them that they where not doing their job that he knew that I had something wrong and if they could'nt find out what was wrong he would take me to another Dr. They got on the ball and sent me to a rheumy who finally said it was fibro. When we had to change Drs. do to insurance he told the Dr. the first time we went in that if they where not going to do anything and keep running tests that we would find another Dr. The Dr. said that he understood and I have gotten wonderful care and understanding from this Dr. We have been married for 32 years and he is the greatest husband a wife could want.