Hope I got the right number this time !!! Don't catch your toes caught under the door!! PLEASE CHECK THE LAST OLD VOLUME FOR MORE POSTS. JULIE JUST SENT A NEW ONE ON THE LAST VOLUME. More in her saga !! Julie - I'm with you. Grandpa seems to think things are OK and he said he wants you to "leave well enough alone" so maybe you should, especially with you feeling so badly again. Step back and see how things go. Hopefully, things will go on OK for him and if he isn't complaining and doesn't want Sis to get upset at least try stepping back. If you see he is losing a lot of weight, not eating ( cause there isn't much to eat) then you can perhaps step in again. She does have him in her pocket or is that visa versa. Don't think he is going to change his attitude unless something very awful happens. Then, of course he may not even see that any of this is her fault. He is going to cover for her probably no matter what, most likely. Our son called us yesterday afternoon and wanted me to call or e-mail everyone of what happened. I sent a nice e-mail to our DIL and son too and she wrote back and appreciated what we did. It is really hit them both VERY hard as they has heard the heart beat. They will NOT try again and go on with the adoption procedings. Both of them had decided probably sometime ago not go to a fertility specialist as they obviously know some people who have gone through so much and a lot of $ and nothing worked anyway. She is either 40 or almost 40. There is to much heart ache there or even trying to go to another country to adopt. To much red tape and $ involved. My heart just breaks for them both. Gotta run now and hope no one else has started a new volume. BTW, woke up at night and aour electricity was out ( ( about 1500 people involved in out neighbor hood). Could see a thin, no night light too - what a pain. It is obviously now back - thank God.