Julie: I'm so very sorry to read all this bad, depressing news from your family. First off, that makes sense about the mold and the quicker they get out the better for everyone. And I'm sorry about your kitty Sapphire. We know our pets AND us get older but it's still hard. And I can understand about the way Lindsey feels about Sheba. I did the same thing with our springer spaniel years ago. She was having little seizures and the vet wanted to put her down. I balked and took her home so the kids could love her up. She surprised us and lived another year without too many problems. And thank you everyone, for your thoughts and prayers. I'm trying to be the strong one in the house.....he kinda lost it yesterday, but I think he's better today after talking to someone at work who went thru the same thing, but even with cancer she didn't have to go thru chemo. I think that lifted his spirits. I'm the one who worries something awful and he's done all the bill paying etc. for ever. I had to ask him this morning where the checks are in case I needed them. To put it bluntly, I'm really a nervous wreck.