tigger please read my response from 1-7 on good news to ya. our unseen friends here are special and since this is where i have found understanding and assurance i am not alone and maybe can help others which in turn helps me, my life has not been so "surrounded and alone" because seen friends treat me that way. there is a song about the circle being broken, i re-wrote it to be the circle will be unbroken. that is what this site is: unbroken circle of people who care for others. that is what fibro members have shown every place i have met them. we are super-sensitive. feel better? i do. thanks again.