To all who replied again heart felt thanks i really mean it so much. I know we are all VERY ill & its very hard for us. I decided id had more than ENOUGH so i talked to my daughter & i told her that while she lives under my roof she lives by my rules like it or not. I also told her that im sick of her going out & not coming home without letting me know especially knowing how much i worry about her. I said i WONT have all the screaming shouting & swearing that she does im very ill & im not going to get any better. She has gone back to the beautiful girl i know & love & if she ever stays out again she will be punished severely as she has been previously. Im so relieved but just let her put a foot wrong & she willl punished & she knows that. A couple of months ago i asked her to start helping with the house work i dont see why a fit healthy young lady shoudnt do her share. Thanks to all of you for being so kind replying to my post i really appreciate it so much. We should all stick together & help each other if ANY ONE of you ever needs a friend to moan or vent or if you just need a friend im here for you its good for me to have my friends to contact i dont see many people daily so im grateful for my friends. Youre all so kind & i love you all. Take care. May god bless you & yours. Please keep in touch even if its just to say hi as we all really need our friends & some people who used to come on here dont any more so new friends are always welcome. Fibrolady37.