Thanks to everyone for all your helpful advice and support as I have had such a hard time of things as of late. Well, after pushing myself so hard the past several days to get our house ready to go on the market, it's close but not done, although I sure am. I am utterly exhausted and have decided I've had it. My health absolutely cannot take a backseat anymore, and I need to make it a priority. As such, I'll do a little more cleaning/straightening 'til 10 and then go to bed, so I can at least get 8 hours' sleep. Hubby pulled an all-nighter organizing stuff last night...he is free to do it again tonight, but I am done. I also have decided to see an attorney tomorrow to inquire about at least separation procedures and better find out my rights. Again, this is NOT a flip decision nor is it really just because I am "down and out". To be quite honest, I've been very unhappy for a long time but felt I had nowhere to go, and at least I had food, shelter, transportation, etc. staying here. I hate the thought of what this will do to our daughter, but her seeing us fight and seeing Mommy so chronically sick and unhappy isn't good either. And honestly, this is way, WAY beyond what counseling could solve. I do know this from experience and am not just rejecting it out-of-hand. Again, I so appreciate everyone's support...it means a lot. I'll keep you posted on how the saga continues. Take care, and I hope everyone has a WONDERFUL, happy, brain-fog and pain FREE day tomorrow. I personally am going to have a good cry right now, but honestly, it usually makes me feel better in the long run. C.