I mean, we are all warned to stay away from toxic people. But sometimes people are not necessarily toxic, but they take and don't give. What I've been doing through my illness, and I have to, is not associating with people who take and don't give anything. There are certain relatives and friends who only call when they need support somehow, either money or for me to support a cause of theirs (which involves spending at least a little money). But one day recently I woke up and said, "I cannot call these people and cry to them about my troubles for even 5 minutes because they'll make an excuse to get off the phone as soon as we are talking about my problems and not there's". And I probably wouldn't be able to get $20 from them if I asked, though I've given them hundreds. Not all of the people fit into this unknown category. But I was just hoping that someone could tell me the different types of people, as far as how giving they can be in a relationship.