Bottom line is, do I take care of my parents, or take care of myself? Right now I am under so much stress that it is affecting me both mentally and physically, bad! I have lived with them for over 3 years now. They are 89 and 85. My mother drives me crazy!!! She always puts me down and treats me like a kid, I'm 52 and totally disabled from fibromyalgia, CFS, IBS, arthritus, depression, etc. They do not have the money for assisted living and I'd hate to think of nursing care. Do I stick it out or go out on my own? They can't cook or clean and neither can I. They can't afford maids, etc. Do I keep going at my expense? What would you do. Need some opinions. Please help.