Hi all, I'm just wanting some help. What do some of you do in difficult situations when people have no clue what Fibro entails? I am part of a church that is expanding, & they have been holding meetings, wanting EVERYONE to get involved in whatever way they can. They actually (with no notice), had 5 different areas that they wanted people to volunteer from. They handed out paper, & you were suppossed to fill it out. I left it blank & went home. Basically you were expected to participate. I think because I do not work, due to health issues, they think that I should feel like helping in some area. I have even had a person say to my face, when I finally drug myself to a bible study w/ my husband, that it was "about time I came. They were about ready to come get me". I wanted to ask them if they go to work when they have the flu & are achy all over, let alone sit through an hour 1/2 of a meeting or church. I think my husband is getting impatient because I don't get involved. I do not want to commit to something when I don't know that I can follow through. Is it awful to just want to go to church, & do nothing more? I don't even do things through the evenings for fun, let alone serve on a committee. Should I talk to my pastor about this (which I don't really want to do ), or just keep my mouth shut? I'm just so frustrated at people sometimes ! Help! Any suggestions?