What if?

Discussion in 'Fibromyalgia Main Forum' started by usanagirl, May 30, 2006.

  1. usanagirl

    usanagirl New Member

    May 31

    I was talking to a friend one day about somehting I planned to do. Actually, I was worrying about how one particular person might react to what I intended to do.
    "What if he doesn't handle it very well?" I asked.
    "Then," my friend replied, "you're going to have to handle it well."
    "What if's" can make us crazy. They put control over our life in someone else's hands. "What if's" are a sign that we have reverted to thinking that people have to react in a particular way for us to continue on our course.
    "What if's" are also a clue the we may be wondering whether we can trust ourselves and our Higher Power to do what's best for us. These are shreds of codependnet ways of thinking, feeling, and behaving, and they signal fear.
    The reactiosn, feelings, likes or dislikes of others don't have to control our behaviors, feelings and direction. We don't need to control how others react to our choices. We can trust ourselves, with help from a Higher Power, to handle any outcome - even the most uncomfortable. And, my friends, we can trust ourselves to handle it well.

    Today, I will not worry about other people's reactions, or events outside of my control. Instead, I will focus on my reactions. I will handle my life well today and trust that, tomorrow, I can do the same.

    Love,
    usanagirl
    Visions are a preview of life's coming attractions.
  2. sisland

    sisland New Member

    Amen to that!! I've read a few books on this subject and try to live my life everyday like god intends and not to react to other peoples ill rot intentions!..........................sisland
  3. LittleBluestem

    LittleBluestem New Member

    I've got that last line at the top of my "To Do" list.