The answer is so simple. Everyone cares about everyone else, and no matter what the problem, someone has had it, is having it, is thinking about having it, or knows someone who has had it. No one is alone here. Our fears are reassured within minutes. Everyone offers advice - great advice - and makes everyone else feel accepted. This board moves day and night. It's amazing! I can login at 2:00 a.m. and find people here! The information in the archives must be tremendous!! I'm so glad I found this place. I can be myself here. It's really the first time I've ever felt at home. Thank you all for being there, abbylee And the products are great, too!