I hear what you’re saying. I always get dinged on by my other family members. They say I don’t get out enough or I should go on a cruise with them or just dumb stuff! I have to do what my body tells me it feels it can do! I’m like you cause I can’t say if I’m going on any cruise in a year from now. Then I can’t get my money back. They don’t get it but regardless of anything, your friends and my family don’t have to get it! You do what you can do that you control. If they aren’t accepting then maybe they’re not true friends. True friends hang in and support you regardless.I am the queen of not making plans in my family. I can't even plan something as simple as cooking supper. I hate that my family has to be missing out on the smallest things because of my fibro. Its not fair to them. I only hope that they TRY to understand how difficult it is for me.